Challenges with mental health and addictions are common, and can affect anyone. They can range from something like not having enough sleep to cope with problems that come up, to being overwhelmed by life in general.
If you or someone that you know needs help urgently, and could be in serious and immediate danger to themselves or others, please call the Mental Health Emergency Helpline on 0800 46 78 46 (Press 1 for Southland and 2 for Otago Regions) or if the danger is imminent and you feel you cannot immediately manage the situation, you can call the Police on 111.
If you don’t need help urgently, but you would still like to see someone about your mental health, visiting a school guidance counsellor or attending your family doctor (GP) is a good place to start.
You can also look at the pages below for some methods of helping yourself, or to look into what help is available for both the short- and long-term.
A Few Quick Ways to Combat Distress
There are lots of things you can do over time that will help to combat mental distress and improve your overall wellbeing. If you need to take a moment before looking through resources or information, or you need to overcome some current distress, try out one of the methods below:
- Breathing – mindfulness and meditation can be great for mental wellbeing, but it can be hard to get started. Find a comfortable place to sit or lie down, set a timer for 1 minute and spend that time just focusing on your breath. Try to notice when your mind wanders, and just bring yourself back to breathing for that one minute.
- Music – take a moment to sing a waiata, practice kapa haka, or listen to your favourite song. Pay attention to how the song makes you feel, and move along with the music if you want!
- Grounding – known as the 54321 technique, this can be particularly useful if your mind is running away from you. First, name 5 things you can see. Then, 4 things you can physically feel, 3 things you can hear, and 2 things you can smell. Finish off with 1 thing you can taste. This practice can be easily changed to suit you, or the environment you’re in, whilst still allowing your mind to slow down.
- Senses – engage in something that pleases your senses, like having a hot shower, walking barefoot in nature, making a favourite drink, or lighting a scented candle. Focus on the sensation and how it makes your body feel in the moment.
- Gratitude – take a photo of or write about one thing or a few things that you are grateful for. It doesn’t have to be complicated, but research shows that those who practice gratitude have better wellbeing. If you keep a record of things you are grateful for, you can also look back at it when you need a pick-me up.
If you want some more ideas for little things you can do for your wellbeing, check out The Five Ways to Wellbeing by the Mental Health Foundation.
Helplines
It’s important to remember there is always someone who is willing to and wants to listen. If you want support whilst in contact with services, or aren’t sure how to address how you’re feeling, there is someone who can help. You may be able to talk to a trusted friend, whānau member, or medical professional. You might also want to try a helpline, where you can talk or text with a person who is trained to help you. You can find a list of helplines here:
Websites and Apps
There is a range of websites with useful information about mental health and wellbeing, some of which are designed specifically for young people. Helpful websites to learn about mental health and wellbeing can be found here:
There is also a selection of health-related apps that you may find useful in managing your mental health and wellbeing. For information on how to choose the right health app for you visit Health Navigator. A list of apps can be found here:
Staff and service directory
There are lots of different people who can help you with the difficulties you’re facing. These people will have a range of backgrounds and areas of expertise. If you’re not sure who it is you’re seeing or what they should be able to help you with, make sure to ask. You can find a description of each type of professional who may work with you here:
You may come across a variety of different services on your mental health journey, some of which are run by Te Whatu Ora Southern, and some of which may be what are called NGOs (non-government organisations). A list of DHB and NGOs you may encounter can be found here:
Supporting a Young Person?
The best thing you can do for a young person is to listen and take notice. You can help by starting the conversation with a young person if you notice changes in their mood or behaviour, or by creating a family culture where it is okay to talk about feelings. If your young person is attending mental health services, either through Te Whatu Ora Southern or a non-government organisation (NGO), don’t be afraid to ask questions about what’s going on, who the main people involved in their care are, and what resources might be out there for you and your whānau.
Below is a list of websites you may find useful in supporting your young person with mental health issues:
Able Southern Family Support – Able are there to support families/whānau that care for someone with a mental illness or addiction. They provide support, information and resources to help both the person and their family/whānau. Able covers the region from four locations: Dunedin, Invercargill, Alexandra and Oamaru. For more information on Able, visit https://able.org.nz/
Eating Disorders Carer Support New Zealand (EDCS) - EDCS is an informal group of parents and carers (currently undergoing formalisation to a charitable trust) of people suffering with genetic-based eating disorders. Our aim is to provide Lived Experience Peer support, educational materials, parent training webinars, awareness and advocacy at all levels for ongoing system improvements on behalf of kiwi families.EDCS Eating Disorders Carer Support NZ | Facebook
Health Navigator – Health Navigator has a wealth of information on all conditions from A-Z. For specific information on mental health and young people, visit https://www.healthnavigator.org.nz/healthy-living/m/mental-health-youth/
Leva – Leva has a lot of information and support for Pasifika families on mental health, addiction and suicide prevention.https://leva.co.nz/
Teen Mental Health – Teen Mental Health has a wealth of resources, information and further links for young people, educators, and parents. For more information on parenting a teen when mental illness is part of the equation, visit https://teenmentalhealth.org/parents/
Mental Health Foundation – The MHF is a charity that aims to work towards a New Zealand that is free of discrimination and where all people enjoy positive mental health and wellbeing. For more information on various projects, reports, or resources, visit https://www.mentalhealth.org.nz/
If you would like to speak to someone for support, you can try these helplines:
Supporting Families in Mental Illness 0800 876 682 A helpline for families and whānau supporting a loved one who has a mental illness.
Skylight 0800 299 100 From 9am-5pm on weekdays, for support through trauma, loss and grief.
Victim Support 0800 842 846 24-hour support for people affected by crime, trauma, and suicide.